Lying Profiles: Why dishonesty on dating profiles is a no-no.
Mistakes and LYING on your online dating profile costS you::
- missed opportunities to connect with suitable partners
- wasted time chasing people who REJECT YOU or IGNORE you because of your profile mistakes
- frustration and higher rejection levels
- wasted money – wasted membership fees and stamps because you’re chasing people who aren’t genuinely compatible
- trust and longevity – potentially meeting people who will NEVER again trust you after recognising you’ve been lying on your dating profile(s)
Don’t lose TIME and MONEY you’ll never get back by sending EMAILS that get ignored (aren’t responded to) and/or NEVER result in actual meetings – due to you saying the WRONG things, or saying the RIGHT things but in the wrong way – or using lazy photos.
Don’t let your profile sit amongst the other lemons – get advice and make your profile count.
“But I don’t want to meet someone my own age… I wan’t younger”! – The bane of online dating and disillusioned searching..
Yes, being older is a barrier to using a dating site.
It’s hard to show in a profile that you are NOT the same as most others your age. Perhaps you have more charm, more fitness, more assets or more love to give. Perhaps you are a gem amongst gems. But you find that the ones YOU’d like to MEET, aren’t interested in someone in your age range. This is very common, and one of the reasons you should seek advice from a profile writing expert.
Advice from the Profile Writing Expert
OVERCOMING barriers to successful online dating: Style, Poise and Substance
The best way to overcome what you see are BARRIERS to meeting people you like is to:
- Create an alluring profile
- GET YOUR PHOTOS RIGHT
- Include a variety of RECENT photos, several taken professionally
- Write a creatively original “opening” spiel and email template
- Use honesty with charm
- Make sure you dress the part – don’t dress like a fuddy duddy or librarian matron if you want to attract someone with style, poise and substance
Overcoming AGE range limitations, HEIGHT criteria and WEIGHT or FITNESS barriers
What’s better than being dishonest about your age on a profile, or lying about your fitness levels and body weight?
- It’s BETTER to have an HONEST profile and to initiate first contact with a prospect who’s criteria excludes you
- Then to be SO CHARMING and clever that they can’t resist having a coffee
- Then WOW them in person if you can
Better yet, it’s best to remain REALISTIC about other people’s parameters or desired criteria for a partner search
- Don’t search for people whose criteria already excludes or rejects your honest descriptions
- Instead, aim to search for people who WILL NOT pre-exclude you based on your current REAL biographical age, your height, weight, hairline and/or child-at-home-status.
What are the most COMMON mistakes people make on online dating site profiles?
Most Common Mistakes made on Online Dating Profiles on Tinder, Match, Eharmony, Bumble, RSVP, Plenty Of Fish and more.
The most COMMON mistakes made on Dating Profiles include:
- not having good photos / using unflattering photos
- only having one photo or not including a full body shot that is flattering
- not having recent photos
- lying about their age
- not saying enough
- being un-creative or too brief in their headlines, descriptions and usernames
- being arrogant-sounding or too self-deprecating (there’s a balance!)
- being rude or mentioning sex or intimacy (or perceived sexual skills in this department) in their dating profiles (usually a sign they are only interested in sex AND/OR very insecure)
- showing a topless photo (typically men) or a photo of themselves at the gym (gym narcissism is a genuine turn off )
- showing only high-athlete photos of running or cycling, or having travel photos, and zero real-life scenes
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What makes for a great dating profile? Getting good advice is imperative for over 50s and over 60s.
- It’s not easy to know how to present yourself in a great light, and even if you ARE a great writer
- And let’s face it, most people AREN’T good at writing AND not accustomed to describing themselves attractively!
- So having professional coaching and profile writing HELP – including photo reviews – can go a LONG WAY in improving your positive response rates
So get help before you become frustrated, despondent and even lonelier than when you started.
DATING PROFILE TIPS services and dating site reviews – profile success in waiting.
We can help in many ways – either by:
- our online resources
- digital downloads dating tips for online dating apps
- reviews of top 10 dating sites for women and men over 50 or over 60
- customised profile reviews
- even personalised dating coaching in person or over the internet.
Is internet dating a waste of time? DOWN-THE-TOILET dating – the waste of precious paper (Digital and otherwise)?
- If you’re failing, you’re also likely not up to date in wardrobe choices or hair styles and/or sexy-balding-looks
- you’re simply NOT using the sites effectively or you have a poorly constructed profile and problematic PHOTO choices
Find out how to increase your dating profile views and YES response rates,
- BEFORE you spend a lot of time, funds and effort on a poorly-working dating profile OR
- Waste time trying to attract the wrong types of people in the worst possible way imaginable
- Get the professional advice you need form our dating coaches and counsellors who are IN THE SAME AGE BRACKETS as you are, and who know the game of online love hunting
Is it gamey? Yes and No. It’s competitive, it’s brutal and it’s win or lose or somewhere in between. But as with other endeavours in life, where thousands of other people are trying to gain the attention of the VERY SAME PEOPLE you would LOVE to meet, you need to learn how to play by RULES and TIPS for better success.
Online Dating over the internet can be extremely frustrating. A number of people fail.
But it can also be very fruitful when you learn WHAT works.
And knowing WHAT doesn’t work helps a lot.
Otherwise, you will forever lose the interest of people you want to meet or get to know.